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i am fun, adventurous, and laugh a lot. i tend to enjoy anything new that i didn't know about before. my theme lately has been to keep an open mind about everything, especially food.

i started D/s about 10 years ago, as a Dom, for a boyfriend. i did like the power, but always knew that i was a sub at heart. i have experimented with all sorts of things over the years. i tend to like restraints, blindfolds, control in general (if you know when to play and when not to), hair pulling, and all sorts of other things that i could list, but shouldn't right now. i couldn't say that i am classically trained by any means, as none of the people that i have played with were at all into the scene. I am not exactly looking to be trained like that either. I just kind of want a relaxed, loving lifestyle of kink and control. Some things that i am into are restraints, hair pulling, pain, blindfolds and gags.

i am polyamorous. That is my nature. i'm honest to a fault.

What i need out of any future relationship is the potential for permanency, forever, true love. That is also my nature. It is not in me to just fuck. The main things that are of utmost importance to me are intelligence, humor, and the ability to keep up with my extremely high sex drive, both in desire, and stamina (and kinkiness). If you don't have the humor and intelligence first, you won't make it to the sex part, so please don't bother to contact me.

Oh yeah, and i have a yearning to find a girlfriend at some point, but i have no idea when or where i will find the right one.

my life absolutely does not revolve around sex. i have a very full life that has many people, places, and things. i'm not here to chat with guys that think they are my Dom from out of state. i'm not here to submit to you before i have even met you. You have to earn that. So, if you are a local intelligent gentleman with wit and humor that would like a long term relationship and you think we may hit it off, you are welcome to write to me.

Capricorn

Average

5' 3 (1.6 m)

Gray

Caucasian

Single

Yes - Sometimes At Home

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

Blonde

Cat

No

Some College

Self-employed

Student

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Average Joe

Flirtatious, Friendly, Loud, Outgoing

Dancing, Dining, Family, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

Completely depends on the two people. Everything is different with each vibe.

I've always wanted to see the castles in Scotland and England. I have always wanted to eat the steaks at Harris Ranch.

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

To make sure that my son becomes a superior adult. i am always evolving and changing myself as well to be a better person.

Friendly, Goofy

Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

Action

Pop, Rock

Erotica, Fiction

Road trip, evening with friends, bdsm parties, camping trip with A LOT of friends, bike ride, hike, movie, watching candy being made, seeing a kid being fascinated by something.

Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

Romance, sweetness, strength, a sense of him knowing himself and being happy with that. Someone who doesn't have to prove anything.

Intimate, Committed