Jefrey

Inglés

I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.

Capricornio

Algún kilo de más

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Caucásico

Separado

Si - No En Casa

No

Ojos

Sal y Pimienta

Gato

No

Diploma Universitario

Tiempo Completo

Educación / Academia

Librarian

Solo/a

Todo tranquilo

No

Si - Socialmente

Ratón de Biblioteca

Observador, Amistoso, Cómico, Coqueto/a

Leer, Aprender, Música, Televisión, Películas, Internet, Juegos, Teatro, Cocinar, Computadoras

Salir con amigos, Quedarme en casa, Probar cosas nuevas, Películas, Relajarse, Jugar Video Juegos, Televisión, Ir a un Concierto, Ir a un Museo

Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.

Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis

Amistoso, Bobo, Coqueteo

Agnóstico

Nunca

Be the better part of someone’s day

Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Oscuro

Ciencia Ficción, Comedia , Drama , Documentales, Animación, Horror, Suspense

Rock, Metal, Electrónica, Pop, Clásica, Blues, Jazz, Punk

Noticias, Biografías, Fantasía, Ficción, Horror, Humor, Música, Poesía, Sátira, Ciencia , Ciencia Ficción, Erótica

Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

Ingenio, Coquetería, Espontaneidad, Sensibilidad, Empatía, Humor, Detallista, Inteligencia

Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare

Amigo/a de Internet, Amigo/a , Cita, Íntimos, Otros, Sexo Oral, Dominación, Bondage